IF YOU WANT TO CHANGE, YOU NEED A KICK IN THE ASS
Gentle Kicks, Real Change
KITA is a private network for leaders, parents, and change-makers who believe in kind, prosocial accountability. It's a place where transformation can happen with gentle support and honesty.
About Kita
A Safe Space for Personal Growth
KITA is a private digital network designed for people committed to real change—whether in health, wealth, or relationships. Rooted in behavioral science and human connection, it offers gentle accountability, emotional safety, and a community of people walking the same path.
Explore How KITA WorksWhy KITA Exists
  KITA is here to help you tackle stress, financial instability, or personal disconnection with coaching, peer support, and actionable tools that make change possible.
STRESS AND EMOTIONAL FATIGUE
A quantitative 35+ page report with rankings, gaps and behavioral recommendations and a qualitative summary report based on multiple interviews.
Loneliness & Disconnection
A personalized development plan based on the report and summary to bring your Next Gen leaders to the next level of their career and ensure your business continuity.
Financial Pressure
Wealth issues like under-earning or debt are personal. KITA helps you explore your money habits and mindset—without shame, and with community support.
How KITA Works
Each event has a simple structure: state your goal, receive clarifying questions, and get feedback based on personal experience. No recordings, no judgment—just trust and support.
Share Your Goal
  Start by clearly stating what you're working on—big or small. It sets the tone and invites meaningful support.
Receive Clarifying Questions
Other members ask thoughtful questions—not to give advice, but to help you get clearer on your own path.
Get Lived Wisdom
Members share only what they've personally lived—no preaching, just honest stories that build trust and connection.
What Makes KITA Different?
In KITA, you can show up however you choose—whether anonymous, with an avatar, or using your real name. There are no unsolicited advice bombs or gurus—just real people supporting each other with kindness.
Zero Judgment Zone
Everyone in KITA agrees to show up with respect and authenticity. Sessions are never recorded, and confidentiality is sacred—so you can open up without fear of shame or criticism.
Experience Over Advice
No one tells you what to do. Instead, members share only what they have lived through—so every insight comes from experience, not opinion. That’s what builds real trust.
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KITA Guidelines
Confidentiality is sacred:
Nothing shared leaves the room. No recordings. Ever.
Lived experience only:
Speak from your truth—not secondhand stories or advice.
Ask, don’t tell:
All questions must be clarifying—not leading or prescriptive.
Respect boundaries:
Participation is always optional, and comfort is prioritized.
Type “I agree” to stay:
Consent is required to join or remain in any KITA space.
No assholes. Period:
Any form of cruelty, shame, or ego-driven behavior gets you removed—no exceptions.
KITA’s Bigger Vision
KITA’s future envisions a vibrant hybrid ecosystem that seamlessly blends digital and live events. This includes innovative leadership badges that recognize excellence and a range of philanthropic initiatives designed to foster accessible change for all individuals. By prioritizing inclusivity and engagement, KITA aims to empower communities and inspire positive transformations across various sectors.
Be Part of the FutureSuccess Stories in Their Words
    Don't just take our word for it - see what actual users of our service have to say about their experience.
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Kylie and her team at Elevated Coaching and Consulting were outstanding throughout our tender process. They demonstrated exceptional time management and attention to detail for a Federal RFT we were engaged in. They consistently surpassed our expectations by completing work ahead of the given timeframe. What stood out was their level of commitment to the bid, matching that of our internal bid team, a rare quality among external consultants. I highly recommend Elevated, regardless of the task size.
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  Kylie has this great ability to dig deep and uncover those things inside you to help you navigate through your own vagueness. She asks question after question to "peel the onion," so to speak. It was quite enlightening and eye opening. I learned some things about myself I never even realized and I'm 51!!! 1 have clarity in my next steps and it feels like a weight being lifted off my chest. I highly recommend Kylie to anyone.
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  Kylie van Luyn has a presence about her that immediately commands your attention. From her intentionality with word choice to the vast knowledge she has on many subject matter issues surrounding people-centered leadership, her help has been instrumental in our growth as an organization. Watching her list of accolades grow as.
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Take the first step & join KITA today.
You don’t have to face challenges by yourself. With KITA, you'll discover the encouragement and resources you need to create impactful, enduring transformations in your life. Together, we can navigate the journey towards your goals and aspirations.
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